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If you allow it, the military career will take more than it gives. It can challenge the strongest military marriage and seduce military leaders into believing their career is more important than WHO they become. The Lifegiver podcast began as a way to encourage, inspire, and bring hope to leaders and military couples when they feel burned out and they’ve lost their way. For almost 20 years, I have served the military and veteran population as a counselor, speaker, author, and subject matter expert on military culture. Lifegiver offers discussions and interviews on personal and leadership development and ways to breathe life into your military marriage and home. Real stories, expert interviews, and honest conversation.
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Saturday Feb 01, 2025
It's Not As Good (or Bad) As You Think
Saturday Feb 01, 2025
Saturday Feb 01, 2025
In this episode, Corie discusses how relationships—and even life—are rarely black and white. You’ll hear how our tendency to lean into extremes, whether viewing things as catastrophic or overly ideal, can hinder healthy growth. With practical advice on shame spirals, conflict resolution, and embracing emotional humility, this episode will help you stay grounded in truth without dismissing the struggles or victories you’re facing.
Corie also opens up about her own experiences, including early marital challenges with Matt and how learning to externalize struggles rather than internalize shame became a game-changer.
Whether you’re struggling with personal self-worth or navigating conflict with your partner, this episode offers real, actionable insights for bringing balance to your emotional and relational life.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- Why black-and-white thinking can sabotage your relationships
- How to recognize the difference between guilt (healthy) and shame (destructive)
- Practical steps for pulling yourself out of a shame spiral
- How to acknowledge both progress and problems in your relationship
- The role of humility and why it’s essential for growth
- How our past experiences shape emotional reactions to conflict
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Music: nature / nurture by Kaitlyn Raitz
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